Champions almost always have a very powerful physical presents. They physically project determination, high energy, confidence and strength. The way they walk, carry their head, their shoulders, and so forth, all contribute to that image. Many competitors lack a strong and positive physical presence. They often project poor confidence, indifference, low intensity, uncertainty, negativism, or a general absence of inner strength.
What is often overlooked is the fact that players can significantly improve their emotional control by improving and strengthening their physical presence. A very important question then is how physical presence contributes to emotional control. The answer lives in the delicate between our minds and bodies. The fact is, we cannot affect one without also affecting the other. When we physically change how we appear on the outside we invariably evidence corresponding change psychologically and emotionally. So keep in mind the following:
How you feel on the inside is closely connected to how you look and feel on the outside.
- If you want to feel high positive intensity, start visibly projecting intensity.
- If you want to feel determined, start looking determined.
- If you want to feel strong and confident, start acting like it.
Channeling high positive emotions during competitive play is no simple task. It is every bit as much a learned skill as developing a great swing. Unfortunately, players rarely train as conscientiously to improve their emotional control as they do in other areas.
The next time you’re feeling down and the world has turned against you in competition, when you’re feeling negative and lost, fight those feelings by controlling how you look on the outside. Throw your shoulders back, pick up your walk, and start manufacturing confidence physically even if you don’t feel it. Remember that you can’t always directly control how you feel, but you can always control your physical presence, and that often gets the job done itself.
The message is clear: work hard to develop and maintain the physical presence of a champion – no matter how you feel – and you could become one.